Chinese Zodiac

Chinese astrology has a history of more than 3,000 years. Ancient people in China invented the 10 Heavenly Stems and 12 Earthly Branches for chronological purposes. However, since most people were illiterate, 12 animals were designated to symbolize the 12 Earthly Branches in order to be better remembered. These lucky animals are rat, ox, tiger, rabbit, dragon, snake, horse, sheep, monkey, rooster, dog and pig successively.

Chinese astrology argues that one’s personality profile can be revealed from one’s birth time. However, the zodiac is based on the year rather than in the month as in the western system. In China everybody knows which animal sign he or she is born under. Do you want to know which animal you are born under and check out your astrological path according to Chinese Zodiac? Read on to learn more.

    • Year of the Rat 1912, 1924, 1936, 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008, 2020, 2032, 2044  

Rat

Rat was the first animal in the Chinese zodiac cycle. It is usually considered aggressive, ambitious, suspicious, power-hungry, honest, generous, quick to anger and prone to spend freely. Those born under the sign of Rat are imaginative, charming, and truly generous to the one they love. However, they have a tendency to be hot-tempered and overly critical. They are usually suitable for sales work or work as a writer, critic, or publicist. Rats will get well along with Dragons and Monkeys, however should avoid Horses.

  • Year of the Ox 1913, 1925, 1937, 1949, 1961, 1973, 1985, 1997, 2009, 2021, 2033, 2045 

OxOx is a symbol of powerful individuals with unyielding and stubborn personalities. Those born under the sign are natural born leaders who typically succeed when given the chance and will also make outstanding parents. They are upright, inspiring, easy-going and conservative. The Ox would be successful as a skilled surgeon, general, or hairdresser. Ox gets along with Snakes and Roosters but not sheep.

 

  • Year of the Tiger – 1914, 1926, 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010, 2022, 2034, 2046  

TigerAs the fighting animal, those born under tiger’s sign are sensitive, aggressive, unpredictable, charming, emotional, courageous and capable of great love. Often risking themselves, they have a carefree life. Tigers usually will be outstanding as a boss, explorer, racecar driver, or matador. A happy marriage can take place with a Horse or a Dog but never a Monkey.

 

  •  Year of Rabbit – 1915, 1927, 1939, 1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999, 2011, 2023, 2036, 2047 

RabbitThose born under this sign are affectionate, talented, obliging, always pleasant, valuing security and tranquility. They have a tendency to get too sentimental and superficial and to avoid conflict and emotional involvement. Being cautious and conservative, they usually take no risk and are successful in business. They would also make a good lawyer, diplomat, or actor. Their best life partners are Sheep or Pigs instead of Roosters.

  • Year of the Dragon 1916, 1928, 1940, 1952, 1964, 1976, 1988, 2000, 2012, 2024, 2036, 2048 

DragonThose born under the sign are considered intelligent, gifted, bossy, loud, garish, and unfaithful, but also popular and successful, full of vitality and enthusiasm. They usually look stubborn on the outside, but softhearted inside. They are born to be an artist, priest, politician, or leader. A dragon will be compatible with a Snake or Rooster. However, a sheep will not be a good choice.

  •  Year of the Snake 1917, 1929, 1941, 1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013, 2025, 2037, 2049 

SnakeThose born under this sign are usually considered clever, passionate, determined, romantic, intense, rich in wisdom and charm, but vain. Women born under Snake are often beautiful. Snakes will be strongly guided by their intuition. They certainly will win a lot of money, but have to avoid procrastination and stingy attitude towards money. The Snake would be most content as a teacher, philosopher, writer, psychiatrist, or fortune teller. Marriage with a Rooster or Ox not a Pig will be best.

  • Year of the Horse – 1918, 1930, 1942, 1954,1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014, 2026, 2038, 2050 

Horse

They are hardworking, intelligent and friendly, cheerful and popular, but impatient. Usually they consider themselves superior to others. They have a strong streak of selfishness and sharp cunning and should guard against being egotistical. Adventurer, scientist, poet, or politician will be suitable occupations for them. Horses get well along with Tigers and Dogs instead of Rats.

  • Year of the Sheep – 1919, 1931, 1943, 1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015, 2027, 2039, 2051 

SheepThe sign suggests a person who is creative, artistic, passionate, elegant, warmhearted, honest, charming but pessimistic, timid, disorganized and vulnerable. Too dependent on material comforts, they are easy to complain and do not respond well to pressure, but will find their own natural solution to a problem when given space. Best occupation for a Sheep is an actor or a gardener. They are compatible with Rabbits or Pigs in marriage, but not Ox.

  • Year of the Monkey – 1920, 1932, 1944, 1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016, 2028, 2040, 2052 

MonkeyMonkeys are intelligent, inventive, clever, entertaining but also dangerous and easily discouraged. Because of their extraordinary nature and magnetic personality, they are always well liked and make close friends. However, they can’t be trusted. They should guard against being an opportunist and distrusting other people. The sign suggests success in any field they try. The best matches are Dragons or Rats while the worst are Tigers.

  • Year of the Rooster – 1921, 1933, 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981, 1993, 2005, 2017, 2029, 2041, 2053

RoosterRoosters are courageous, hardworking, shrewd, arrogant, reckless, selfish and eccentric. They are thirsty for knowledge, devoted to work and definite involved in decision-making. They are skilled at what they do and attentive to details. However, they tend to seem boastful to others. Roosters will be happy as a restaurant owner, publicist, soldier or world traveler. The sign promises harmony with Snakes and Ox and trouble with Rabbits.

  • Year of the Dog – 1922, 1934, 1946, 1958, 1970, 1982, 1994, 2006, 2018, 2030, 2042, 2054 

DogThose born under this sign are honest, quiet, intelligent, generous, stubborn, loyal and faithful to those they love. They are introverted listeners, dedicated but also cynical and prone to letting their external anxieties get the better of them. Constant worry, a sharp tongue, and a tendency to be a faultfinder will always plague them. However, they are born to be successful. Dogs will be excellent businessmen, activists, teachers, or secret agents. Tigers and Horses are deemed as best matches. Dragons need to be handled with care.

  • Year of the Pig – 1923, 1935, 1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1995, 2007, 2019, 2020, 2031, 2043 

PigPigs are honest, reliable, sincere, tolerant, shy, affectionate, kind, impulsive and short tempered. They are splendid companions, intellectuals with a very strong need to set difficult goals and carry them out. In addition they are extraordinarily naive. Their unquenchable thirst for knowledge will facilitate their success whereas their quest for material comfort will frustrate it. Pigs also will sacrifice their lives for good causes. The Pig will be successful in financial affairs, or as an entertainer, or possibly a lawyer. Pigs should be aware of other Pigs and compatible with Sheep and Rabbits.

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Oracle Guidance for October 2012

Energy of the Month: Outstanding

How the energy of this month affects you in your personal life?

The most important thing about you is what you have come to live and refine every day of your life as a purpose that guides everything else you are involved with. If you accomplish everything else, but fail to be yourself, you will have wasted your life. There is a certain magic that happens to you when you are just the way only you can be. Be true to yourself and what you stand for despite of all of the weathering storms you may have gone through. In any given situation, there are endless ways to respond and act on them differently. There is but one balanced, positive and dignified way to be the real you and that is to do the right thing with integrity and passion! When you do what is right for yourself, this is always more powerful than anything else. This week, is it your choice whether to hide from your true self or to be truly outstanding. Allow yourself be a striking example and you can move mountains and inspire thousands. Otherwise, you will never know how magnificent your life can actually be until you do it.

How the energy of this month affects you in your business life?

With all of modern technology, life has become so advanced it requires quite a lot of means to go through it adequately. These inescapable demands have shifted our focus into a constant quest to earn money instead of applying our talents to be of service to each other with the sincere desire to grow spiritually in the process. While money is nothing but energy and is needed to secure our needs, when it becomes primary, let alone the only reason for being in business, the natural reason business energy exists gets lost. When the convenience of gaining money becomes the sole driving factor behind what you do, it will foreclose the opportunity of sharing yourself with the world and giving it your best. Money for its own sake is not yours to keep and if you do, everyone will lose, including you. The right approach is to view it as a byproduct from unleashing your unique skills and gifting them freely to the world. This is not only the only way of achieving real fulfillment and true growth, it is the path to be outstanding in everything you do. In short, if you sell yourself just for the money, you will always sell yourself short. Recognize and embrace any opportunity to employ what you are all about in a business project so you can personally advance yourself with it. Just be yourself and give it your all so you can be as rich you can be. Now is the time to decide exactly why you are you doing what you do.

How the energy of this month affects you in your social life?

Many times, the people in your immediate environment are blind to acknowledge how truly outstanding you really are. This is like being a prophet in your own country and is due to their limitations, not yours. If you undermine yourself by buying into this view, it may prevent you from going as far as you know you are capable of. No matter how much you love and respect others, do not cater to them. As long as you know you are worthy, do not look for the approval or permission from anyone to be yourself and do what your heart desires. Expecting others to understand this about yourself is a unique challenge, since they are not you. Do not compromise your inner drive and ambition for anyone. This will not do anything for them while it will sacrifice your entire future. You have come here to live a full life for yourself and others are not qualified to make your decisions. Besides, if you really love others, you will do what is right for yourself first. If they truly love you back, their only concern will be to see you happy and only you can make this happen. By living for yourself and inspiring others to do so for themselves, this will create the greatest balance any relationship can have while achieving the most solid and happy environment for both of you.

With Love & Light,

Katherine Goh

Discover Crystals Healing

Healing is the process of repairing your system to perfect functioning. Holistic healing is healing in your Body (physical healing) , Mind ( emotional healing) and Spirit (Spiritual healing). Everybody’s healing journey is their own, as everyone has to follow their own unique path. I have been working with my clients for more than 8 years now on alternative healing, with focus on Crystal Healing techniques. Along the journey, i have discovered interesting findings. 

Clients undergone crystal healing, shown the following characteristics:

  1. They are happier and more calm. 
  2. Their thoughts are more positive and skin looks younger and brighter.
  3. Elimination/Reduction of negative habits 
  4. Before the therapy, i always urge my clients to drink a glass of water. After the healing, i recorded they will go toilet straight after the session and their urine usually yellowish.

For me, gemstone therapies have energized me, healed illness, helped me break bad habits, and changed my life. This is true energy medicine. Crystals provides one of the most fixed frequencies known to man. These frequencies are quite naturally “as solid as rock”.

Crystals and the Human Body

The human body has a complex electromagnetic system, also known as a vibrational energy system. Nature has created crystals to be perfect electromagnetic conductors, capable of interacting with our electromagnetic system. Crystals have been found to carry vibration that activates certain energy centers within our electromagnetic system, thus having a positive effect on our entire body systems.

Effects of Crystal Therapy

Crystal therapy aims to restore the balance and well being of a person. In such therapy assorted stones are placed on or around the body that resonate with chakras of the body. This helps to release impending blockages, refining the flow of energy. The recipient is able to experience a deep state of tranquility, letting go of attitudes and habits that are not beneficial, assisting in tuning ourselves to the rhythm of life. Crystals work on the subtle energy levels and in our auras to re-balance energies and improve our well-being. This therapy promotes peace and tranquility and reduces mental and nervous stress.

How can you use the power of crystals to create abundance and prosperity and a better life in so many ways? Would you like to learn to use crystals to assist you to manifest money?

If you would like to get know more about crystal healing, join us on our monthly group crystal healing. To find out when is our next meetup session, feel free to drop us an email to: kathgoh@gmail.com

The information is offered here as a service and is not meant to replace any medical treatment. No guarantee is made towards validity. Use this information at your own risk. This is my personal belief on how high quality gemstones work for me and my clients.

With Love & Light,

Katherine Goh

Oracle Guidance for September 2012

ULTIMATE is the energy for the new spiritual year and began on September 1st. This is a time to plan ahead and use your creativity to make a difference in the world.

The coming year will be a time of living to the ULTIMATE. You are now ready to make what you have been planning into something more solid and concrete. Your standards will need to be the highest they have ever been and it is important to clarify your own inner policies and processes, the rules and regulations you live your life by. By being loyal to yourself first (meaning making yourself happy before you try to make others happy), you will be an inspiration to many people in your immediate and worldly environment.

Before you can do anything for anyone else, decide what your ULTIMATE goals need to be this year in your (A) personal Life (B) business Life and (C) social Life. Do not compromise. Allow it to formulate and build it step-by-step in your mind so you do not take anything for granted. Do not make excuses for yourself (or others) because this will undermine everything you are setting your energy to do. Do not say to yourself: I do not have the money or the time. If you truly want it, it will happen – as long as you organize yourself with the facts of (1) what (2) when (3) where and (4) why. The fifth “w” (who) is what you and others will personally gain from what you have created.

Everyone comes to planet Earth with a mission in mind. We did not come here NOT to be successful. We especially did not come here to suffer or undermine our talents and abilities to live our potential. As long as you have the passion to do the ULTIMATE, nothing can stand in your way – not even yourself!

This card asks you to set aside doubts or worries, and to feel secure that everything is positive. Your plan is going to work out, your desires are going to happen, and probably in better-than-expected ways. Imagine that your dreams has already come true, using your inner vision and your feelings as you do. You just need to stay filled with faith and hope, and take action when you’re guided.

I will leave you with a note from the Universe to ponder and appreciates:

With Love & Light,

Katherine Goh

Oracle Guidance for August 2012

This reading was done by using The Four Elements Spread. The Elements are Fire,Water,Air and Earth. 

Energy on Spread – The High Priestess

Whether you realize it or not, your whole life showcases who you are. Are you ready to make your presentation this month? All you need to do is keep your energy calm and in balance so your true essence can shine through. Is this easier said than done for you? Let’s see what can help you feel the most confident in your own skin.

Since you are energy, all you may ever need translates into more energy. For example, if you are tired – you need more rest energy. If you are hungry – you need more food energy. If you are short of financial means to get by – you need more resources energy. If you are depressed – you need more calm energy, etc. As long as you can wrap your head around how you can actually supply this energy to yourself – you will have it made. The secret is – guess what? You already have it coming to you from the universe. Energy flows into your physical body through (1) the pineal gland (back of the head) and flows through the rest of your energy centers (chakras) in a natural order: (2) coccyx (lower back), (3) reproductive organs, (4) solar plexus (stomach) (5) heart area and (6) thyroid (throat) and then flows out of (7) the pituitary gland (middle of the forehead or third eye). The key is to having each of these energy centers open 100% to allow for an uninterrupted flow. In reality, there are spiritual concepts pertaining to each of these areas and if you are unclear in any of them, this can cause a blockage. This slows down the flow through the affected centers and can result in a physical discomfort or dis-ease in these corresponding parts of your body. Once you realize what is happening to you, keeping clear and staying open can be easy and your self-presentation will show you are in full charge of your natural energy!

Advise: Wheel of Fortune

To keep your personal life together by giving it your best presentation, it is very important to allow for the flow in and out. This has to do with your self-acceptance (inflow) and your personal outflow. Being open to receive relies on accepting yourself for who you are as a soul. You need to love and appreciate yourself. You have lived lifetime after lifetime mastering your unique innate philosophy through countless experiences. Therefore, no one else has your answers but you. Any time you think you are not good enough or do not deserve something will create tension and shrink the energy flow into you. This cuts down your energy supply. This is one of the main reasons many older people scrunch and bend down. They have denied themselves throughout their life and the energy flow is so low, they press themselves down until they are visibly bent. If you try to explain to them how to free themselves and start feeling adequate, this could be a challenge and requires patience since it has been so ingrained and passed on from generation to generation. How easy it is to break this chain if you open your own eyes and change it within yourself so you can be an example for others. The outflow denotes giving freely and being totally involved in life. Unfortunately, for many people it turns instead into holding onto things and cutting off endless opportunities by just being closed. No wonder they end up with migraine headaches. The simple answer is not to be uptight, but learn to release. After you have worked out your inflow and outflow, the solar plexus deserves serious attention. This is where discernment and detachment come into play. Otherwise, you can end up worrying yourself sick. Just realize the problems others are having are not yours. So quit suffering with them. Creating a natural boundary around you protects your energy from getting mixed up with negativity from your immediate environment.

Overall Situation: Travel, solve problems through the feminine way. Be Gentle with yourself and others. Be harmony with Universe and feel the Wholeness within you.

Work August will be a busy Month. May have conflicts in the workplace. Remember to observe first before action. Trickery at workplace may be possible.

The presentation you do in your business begins with how you have chosen to be of service to others and starts with your wants and goals. If you are unclear what you want for yourself, there is very little you can offer anyone else. You have come here to live a vibrant life – full, exciting and fun and have so much to offer. No one else has gone through the exact same experiences. Only you have seen things from your individual point-of-view. If you share what you have learned, your incredible wisdom will be invaluable to others. Once you feel a natural desire for something big or extraordinary – it is yours for the taking. In addition to recognizing what you can do, you also need to organize yourself to do it. Pin down your facts in a businesslike manner. After this is crystal clear, next comes your incentive. Do you have a strong drive to pursue your goals? How much do you really want to see them happen? So many people have incredible ideas, but bury them alive with their ‘but’s. They all say – I wish this or that, BUT I am: not lucky enough, too short, too young, too poor, too inexperienced…or whatever else they use as a petty excuse. As long as your heart pumps blood, you have it in you to go full steam ahead with what drives you. Pursue your utmost desires and make these dreams come true. Do not turn your back on your own self. Be unstoppable – no one else can do this for you!

LovePause and think: To have an impeccable social life, you need to start with taking care of your own needs first. Taking care of others all of the time does not work. Attending to someone else before doing it for yourself first puts you at a great disadvantage as you will not be in shape to help yourself let alone do this for anybody else. What good are you if you do not provide for yourself with enough food, love, health, shelter and sex? The latter represents communication – opening yourself to someone else who is opening themselves back to you and could be either physical or spiritual. This is your ultimate self-expression and creativity which leads to pro-creation – creating someone just like yourself! Do not be shy spiritually. Bring out your creative juices and give them the expression they deserve by sharing what you have with others. Lastly, is your relating gland or thyroid. Do you ever compare yourself and feel greater or lesser than others? Remember, you are not them and they are not you. We are just different. So who is better?  We all have our own way to be. There is no point in judging or holding grudges because everyone is just doing the best they know how. Relax – this is the only way to have a true soul-to-soul communication with everyone.

Health – Headache, Fever and challenges on head is possible. Take great care and sleep early.

Financial – Stagnant. Perhaps its time to create another external source of income? What do you love to do ?

With Love & Light,

Katherine Goh

Tarot Reading Using The Four Elements

This reading was done by using The Four Elements Spread for one of my client. The Elements are Fire,Water,Air and Earth. I have experimented and found out that if the inquirer is on the site of reading, of course his/her energies will be stronger than if the inquirer is not around (as in distance reading), then the 1st card will present associating Horoscope or planet card relating to the inquirer.

In this reading, i am doing distance reading.

Focus on all major Arcana. If any of the major Arcana is associating with the inquirer’s horoscope,pay special attention. In this case, Temperance card which is the inquirer’s horoscope. In this segment, is the guidance on his Work.

Summary of this reading:

Work Don’t be extreme. Choose the middle path. Cool off. Observe and let your intuition work. Moving onwards present new opportunities. Go with the flow at work may be the best option out.

Key Words: Observe/Balance/Go with the Flow/Patience

Love – Joyful relationship and yearning to go home after work and able to see his partner. Partnership will present luck. The couple is homely and enjoys each other’s companionship.

Key Words: Joy/Home

Health – Solar Plexus and Sacral Chakras are not aligned. Digestive challenge. Generally good health.

Key Words: Digestion

Financial – Learn how to flow with the ups and downs of financial changes. Resistance produce disturbance. Go with the flow.

 Key Words: Change / Resistance

Advises – You are your greatest enemy. Do not imagine things and get “trick” by yourself. Be focus and not to have many many goals as overloaded goals can be wasting your time. Be focus on what you want ! You may be veiled in your thoughts. Quieten your mind and stay focus on what you want.   

If only you can be crystal CLEAR of what you want in life, things you need will be given to you by higher powers. Enjoy the miracles and HAVE FAITH.

Oracle Guidance for July 2012

Throughout your life, you are presented with experiences that test the way you respond to situations around you.

Since it depends on the state-of-mind you are in, this month it is of the utmost importance to address your understanding of everything happening to you on a daily basis and your role in it.

Energy of the Month: Respond

How the energy of this month affects you in your personal life: Respond; Change it and regain your control 

The way you view yourself and how well you understand what is happening in your immediate environment determines how you feel about yourself and how you respond to life on an everyday basis. If you allow anything to frustrate you or bring you down to feeling negative, this means you are surrendering your control to these external factors and making them more important than yourself. This confusion steers your energy away from where it belongs and, as a result, you end up feeling run down. Since like attracts like, you are always connecting with the same energy you are emitting. You may blame the outside world for your troubles, but if you do not like it, ask yourself what you are doing to end up in this environment. Change it and regain your control. No matter how low your energy gets, clarify what is keeping you there and snap out of it. This way, you can learn a lot by responding in a more balanced and positive way.

How the energy of this month affects you in your business life: Respond to Opportunity

Whatever you are doing to be of service to others must involve people you work with. Everyone may not always be on the same page or even have clarity with what the goal is. When there is a conflict, it takes patience and good energy to respond in a peaceful and calm fashion since sometimes a person is only looking out for him or herself. If people could see what an incredible opportunity they have by being in the position they are in, they would appreciate it much more and make it count. However, there are opportunists who only use or manipulate the system. These are people who do not want to create anything for themselves or others and end up abusing the opportunity. To avoid this type of complacency, you need to be clear on how what you are doing is of benefit to you and what you can do to take it even further. Not only will you contribute more based on what you are capable of, but you will gain much more satisfaction in the process.

How the energy of this month affects you in your social life: Follow your own heart

The best thing you can ever do for yourself is to feel free to follow your own heart. Sometimes, you may find yourself in a bind with your family or friends who expect you to live your life differently. The key is not to sell yourself short and give up on your own dreams to please others. It is important to understand that if anyone is trying to encroach on your boundaries, it is usually their confusion and not yours. You need to maintain your cool no matter what and respond diplomatically. Fend for yourself but help them by being an example in the process. All you can do is remain calm and communicate clearly how inspired what you want to do makes you be. If they really do care about you, they would rather see you truly happy than doing what they are demanding. And if not, you can offer a suggestion as to what you would do if you were in their shoes. Just do not tell them what to do or even do it for them. If you are in the plane of freedom and they are in a state of confusion or complacency, you may not be able to get through to them easily, but your actions will be there to speak for themselves. They may look back one day and evaluate how free you felt versus how uptight their concepts made them be.

With Love & Light,

Katherine Goh

Oracle Guidance for June 2012

As you can see i have decided to change my weekly oracle guidance to monthly basis which i find it more effective and better time management for me.

If you stop Learning, you stop Living. Life is all about learning. What did you learn yesterday that can creates better living today? Be Open to Receiving learning today for your better tomorrow. The life goes on…

Energy of the Month: Restructure


How the energy of this month affects you in your personal life:
This is the season to enjoy the high energy of summer. If you feel depleted, what is causing it? Are you wound up into thinking about everything you had to do yesterday, your to do list today as well as all of the things you are looking to accomplish tomorrow? This will definitely do it to you. This is why it is important to watch where your energy is going. If you are not completely focused on what you are doing in the moment, you may feel either scattered or run down. What is happening is you are sending your energy to every single place you are thinking about. Do not forget yourself. Restructure your personal routines to fit around the most important tasks you need to accomplish and do not overwhelm your schedule with unneeded assignments. As far as your energy is concerned, there is plenty more where it comes from as long as you are using it in a balanced way and do not let it get scattered into 20 million different places.

How the energy of this month affects you in your business life:
If you think you have already organized everything at work to the maximum, think again. The best way to conduct your business is to remain sensitive to what is happening daily and take all of those hints you are getting into consideration. Staying directed does not mean pushing yourself so hard you never take breaks. It is in knowing where you are going as well as how you are doing it while taking into account what is going on around you. Closely observe how things are developing from what you are doing and the factors that interfere with it. Then, take breaks as often as needed to regroup yourself and restructure the process you are using to take you there. Repeat this at the end of the day and you will never need to lose sleep over anything. This will help you set your energy just right to accomplish anything you put your heart and mind to.

How the energy of this month affects you in your social life:
This week gives you a perfect opportunity to restructure your attitude in your relationships so you can gain even more from them. Since no one likes to be told what to do, the best way to treat others is to offer them a positive and supportive environment. Make a decision to respect the opinion of others and be open to say that they may be right for themselves. This way, you can have an opinion of their opinion without offending them personally. If you are flexible and not rigid in your conversations, you will be able to agree more and allow the other side to feel free to share openly and sincerely. All of this will help you set your own boundaries in a gentle way others can easily accept and you will be able to earn their trust more while having a greater time with everyone.

With Love & Light,

Katherine Goh

Apr 2012 Connective Goal Setting Session

Hello Goal Setters,

Having great idea is great, however what’s the use of them if we do not TAKE ACTION on them? With respect to goals, projects, and other to-do items, it’s easy to get stuck too long in the thinking and planning phase. You can sit around writing and rewriting your goals, delving into your subconscious mind, working through emotional blocks, summoning the power of Thor… whatever.  But if you don’t eventually get into action, you’re wasting your time.

People at the top of every profession share one quality — they get things done. This ability supersedes intelligence, talent, and connections in determining the size of your salary and the speed of your advancement.

Despite the simplicity of this concept there is a perpetual shortage of people who excel at getting results. The action habit — the habit of putting ideas into action now — is essential to getting things done.

During our April session, we have engaged the use of oracle decks to give guidance to our participants what needs to be done. What are the directions. I shall not delve deeper here.

What are some of the way you can grow the ACTION Habit?

  •  Be a doer – Practice doing things rather than thinking about them. Do you want to start exercising? Do you have a great idea to pitch your boss? Do it today. The longer an idea sits in your head without being acted on, the weaker it becomes. After a few days the details gets hazy. After a week it’s forgotten completely. By becoming a doer you’ll get more done and stimulate new ideas in the process.
  • Live in the present – Focus on what you can do in the present moment. Don’t worry about what you should have done last week or what you might be able to do tomorrow. The only time you can affect is the present. If you speculate too much about the past or the future you won’t get anything done. Tomorrow or next week frequently turns into never.
  •  Remember that ideas alone don’t bring success – Ideas are important, but they’re only valuable after they’ve been implemented. One average idea that’s been put into action is more valuable than a dozen brilliant ideas that you’re saving for “some other day” or the “right opportunity”. If you have an idea the you really believe in, do something about it. Unless you take action it will never go anywhere.
  • Don’t wait until conditions are perfect – If you’re waiting to start until conditions are perfect, you probably never will. There will always be something that isn’t quite right. Either the timing is off, the market is down, or there’s too much competition. In the real world there is no perfect time to start. There is only NOW! You have to take action and deal with problems as they arise.

 Most people live and die with their music still unplayed. They never dare to try.  – Mary Kay Ash –

What is the MUSIC in your life?

Next class, we will share and reveal more on Being Present.

Assignment: Take One Action everyday to reaching your Goals.

With Love & Light,

Katherine Goh